Many people assume that divorce is more likely if they are in constant conflict with their spouse. Maybe they have fights and disagreements on a consistent basis. Maybe they feel like every little disagreement turns into a major argument, and they can sense that this conflict is pushing them toward divorce.
To that end, if those arguments and disagreements stop, these people may believe that the relationship is healing and that divorce is less likely. However, some relationship experts warn that the opposite may actually be true. This stark decline in arguments could actually be an indicator that divorce is getting closer.
Your partner has checked out
What may have happened is that your partner has mentally checked out of the relationship. They’ve reached the point where they know they are going to file for divorce. They haven’t done it yet, perhaps because they haven’t had time or they’re just looking into their legal options. But from their perspective, the relationship is essentially over.
As a result, they see no reason to try to win any of these arguments. They will step away from conflicts, not because they agree with you or because the relationship is getting better, but simply because there’s no point in continuing to engage if they know they’re going to leave. In this sense, a lack of arguments can actually be a red flag that divorce is on the horizon.
Preparing for a divorce
If you and your partner are going to get divorced this year, take the time to carefully look into all of the legal steps you’ll need to take while addressing things like marital property division, child custody rights and much more.